{"id":296,"date":"2025-01-28T21:57:24","date_gmt":"2025-01-28T20:57:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/diaper-dreams.fr\/?page_id=296"},"modified":"2026-01-26T19:41:05","modified_gmt":"2026-01-26T18:41:05","slug":"shameful-fantasy","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/diaper-dreams.fr\/en\/r\/shameful-fantasy\/","title":{"rendered":"The shame of unconfessed fantasies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"has-text-align-right\">Published on January 28, 2025 \u2013 Updated on January 26, 2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other day, while browsing YouTube, I came across several interesting videos talking about shameful fantasies (in French). The videos were not focused on ABDL and diapers, but more on fantasies that are often guilt-inducing, especially for women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Shameful Fantasies - How to Live With Them\" width=\"605\" height=\"340\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nSr3eSC3VMU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Digging a little deeper, we realize that this is a fairly common theme in feminist\/sex content.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Fantasize about rape?\" width=\"605\" height=\"340\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/I0MbLwG9o1w?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Another video in a similar style, but still interesting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=zJflQRu3MUw\" target=\"_blank\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"605\" height=\"396\" data-attachment-id=\"302\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/diaper-dreams.fr\/en\/r\/shameful-fantasy\/image-10\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?fit=1115%2C730&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1115,730\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"image\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?fit=605%2C396&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=605%2C396&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-302\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=1024%2C670&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=300%2C196&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=768%2C503&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=18%2C12&amp;ssl=1 18w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=100%2C65&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=150%2C98&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=200%2C131&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=450%2C295&amp;ssl=1 450w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=600%2C393&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?resize=900%2C589&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/diaper-dreams.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/image-3.png?w=1115&amp;ssl=1 1115w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 605px) 100vw, 605px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=zJflQRu3MUw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fantasies linked to elements rejected by the body (scatophilia-urophilia and menstruation), H\u00e9l\u00e8ne LAMPIN. <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>In October 2025, Arte released a very interesting podcast on this topic. Again, the subject isn&#039;t ABDL itself, but rather the violent fantasies some women have. I think this podcast is a valuable resource for people with ABDL, because it addresses the issue of how our fantasies are often frowned upon. People who have these desires often struggle to accept this part of themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"What to do with our violent fantasies? | A podcast of one&#039;s own | ARTE Radio Podcasts\" width=\"605\" height=\"340\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/eZbq8YwOBek?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Published January 28, 2025 \u2013 Updated January 26, 2026. The other day, while browsing YouTube, I came across several interesting videos discussing shameful fantasies (in French). The videos weren&#039;t ABDL-related\u2026<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/diaper-dreams.fr\/en\/r\/shameful-fantasy\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The shame of unconfessed fantasies<\/span> Read More \u00bb<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":13,"menu_order":120,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-296","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>La honte des fantasmes inavou\u00e9s - Diaper Dreams<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/diaper-dreams.fr\/en\/r\/shameful-fantasy\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"La honte des fantasmes inavou\u00e9s - Diaper Dreams\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Publi\u00e9 le 28 janvier 2025 &#8211; Mis \u00e0 jour le 26 janvier 2026 L&rsquo;autre jour, en me baladant sur YouTube, je suis tomb\u00e9 sur plusieurs vid\u00e9os int\u00e9ressantes parlants de fantasmes honteux (en fran\u00e7ais). 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