Newsletter #12 – 2026-06-11 (archive) – visit to Germany, KDC, and pacifier cage

Visiting our German neighbors. 

I'm currently writing this newsletter in the airport waiting area (my flight is delayed, which is also giving me a chance to correct any mistakes). I'm going to the PamperPlay party in Hamburg this weekend (https://hamburg.frechdax-abdl.de/This is a (very) big ABDL party, the kind the Germans do so well. The party takes place on a renovated trawler that hosts alternative events. It can accommodate up to 350 people and is techno-oriented. Originally, this was the kind of party we wanted to do with the KDPs, but we shifted more towards entertainment and games. So I'm going to take some notes in case we can also organize a techno party for 350 people in diapers.

The KDC

It's coming! What? You haven't bought your ticket yet? Don't worry, there are still a few spots available out of the hundred or so planned ;). See you there! https://diaper-dreams.Visit .fr/kdc for information, tickets, etc.

The program is still under construction at the moment. This week I was able to speak with a fetish association in the west that would be willing to lend us their vacuum bed (which I would translate, probably poorly, as “empty bed” in the language of Molière).

For those who don't know, it consists of two large latex sheets that you slip inside and then vacuum with a vacuum cleaner or pump. This creates a feeling of constraint, which I personally find very pleasant (a bit like when you're scuba diving or freediving at a certain depth and you feel the water pressure pressing on every part of your skin). 

If we manage to do that, we'll have dedicated time slots on Friday and Sunday for participants to try it out. I might even try to get it beforehand to make a video about it, because wow, I really love the thing!

The heartthrob <3

In ABDL (and particularly in the DL world), there is a fantasy that is also present: chastity. 

Generally, it's more about men who dream of not being able to use their organ (often linked to humiliation)...

I recently discovered, on a friend's recommendation, a company that makes chastity cages (for men) shaped like pacifiers (yes, it's possible, and they even look rather cute). Wouldn't that be the perfect combination?

See on the Oxy website: 

The Pacifier – Chastity Cage for ABDL