The shame of unconfessed fantasies

Published on January 28, 2025 – Updated on January 26, 2026

The other day, while browsing YouTube, I came across several interesting videos talking about shameful fantasies (in French). The videos were not focused on ABDL and diapers, but more on fantasies that are often guilt-inducing, especially for women.


Digging a little deeper, we realize that this is a fairly common theme in feminist/sex content.


Another video in a similar style, but still interesting.


Fantasies linked to elements rejected by the body (scatophilia-urophilia and menstruation), Hélène LAMPIN.


In October 2025, Arte released a very interesting podcast on this topic. Again, the subject isn't ABDL itself, but rather the violent fantasies some women have. I think this podcast is a valuable resource for people with ABDL, because it addresses the issue of how our fantasies are often frowned upon. People who have these desires often struggle to accept this part of themselves.